Tuesday, May 15, 2007

Respect 2

Okay, so I finally am able to post!! YIPPEE!! I'm actually in my college's computer lab right now...I got an account set up and everything. yay. SO, I'll try to post at least 2 times a week. ;-) It's better then not at all, right?

I'm going to take off from Bryde's post about respecting guys. It is so important not to look down on them, as she said. I think an important part of that is not ratting about them or talking badly about guys to your girlfriends. I know this is supposed to be a post about singleness, but it is so important for when you are married, or in a relationship. DO NOT talk badly about them behind their backs. Or, for that matter, don't gossip at all. It's that easy, but so crucial.

And another thing, guys really do have feelings. Just like you, words hurt, but just because they don't get as emotional as you, does NOT mean that you aren't hurting them. Don't ever say, "Take it like a man", or "He can handle it, he's a guy." It may be true in some cases, but seriously. Just don't do it. :)

I would post some Scripture verses about gossip, but I don't have my Bible with me. Look up some passages about gossip. And ladies, Let's control our tongues!! :-) Our biggest weakness, no?

~becca~

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

yeah, so true!!!! thanx...i need some work on that with the good ol' brothers :)